I still believe romance in a marriage is possible. Some ladies exist that could do this. Yes! I don’t where they are but I know they’re alive somewhere. You can call romantic women like these love doctors. They are the ones R. Kelly was referring to when he sang “WHEN A WOMAN LOVES”.
Guys, if you find women willing to fly to the moon for you, you’ll be walking on the streets smiling. People will be like, is this man mad? Yes! You’re madly in love with your wife.
Follow me as I highlight 7 little romantic things every woman can do for her husband.
NOTE: This is not applicable to all males/ females.
1. Cut his toenails.
She notices your toenails growing so long and you know, some men don’t care about “little things” like that. She does it for him. At that moment, she is in charge of his heart! She is 50% sure of getting whatever she wants. DON’T MAKE THAT YOUR AIM. 2. Jump on his back and play with him.
Stop being an adult all of a sudden! Play and leap on his back.
One of many things a man loves but much familiarity and ‘over maturity’ won’t let him know how to even spew it out of his mouth is this.
She better not be robust, lol…Even if she’s robust, the man can still manage it…
3. Feed him.
This is especially when he is not too strong… Even when he is sound, doing it brings flavour to your relationship and give him the butterfly feeling. No matter how “ajekpako” he is, he loves it. He loves the feeling. Give it to him. Put the garri in his mouth. That’s how to take a man’s heart. Not by dragging rights!
4. Help him knot his tie.
This may look foreign, but No! It is not meant for the first five months of your marriage only. Some ladies came to me to teach them how to knot a tie- they want to be doing this for their husband.
It’s fun and it shows love!
5. Massage his laps and legs.
Sometimes, your man returns from early morning road work or even from work. You see him complaining of how his laps are so heavy. Give him a massage. Massage his laps, legs and toes, if possible.
6. Constantly package his lunch nicely for him.
My friend’s aunt does this. She packs for the children and the husband too. The husband talked so much about her in the office, that other men got intimidated and employed the scheme, lol! This man loves his wife! They are not soooo wealthy…She works oh. The man comes from work every day to get a glass of juice first, then bathroom and food…TV and bed. The man too will perform well on bed by force na…
7. Welcome him with a peck from work as you take his jacket.
If it is good for the goose then it is good for the gander. It is not just a “White People” thing. It is a practice that could change your husband’s treatment of you.
He loves you whether you do these things or not BUT when you train yourself to do them, he will not only love you, He will LIKE you.
LIKING someone is admiring the person.
He may love you just for peace to reign and the law demands it.
But for him to really really LIKE you, you have to somehow go out of your way to do some little romantic things to helping him better.
DON’T SAY YOU CAN’T TRY THIS FOR A NIGERIAN MAN. It is a lie! Love has no language. It is the language you give it that it assumes. Love is universal. If it works for that white lady, it will work for you because we are the same.
Culled from Nairaland