Men, like women, are emotional to an extent. They just hide it better than women. You may have been in a relationship with your man for a while now; he treats you right, has a nice rapport with your family and friends, gives you gifts, and everything in-between. But, you feel there’s something missing. He rarely says he loves you or even worse, he has never told you he loves you AT ALL.
I can imagine you may be feeling a little insecure right now because you haven’t heard those words. His actions may show he loves you but you’re a woman and you need the words. Do you want to know why he may not have said he loves you? Or doesn’t say it so often, the way you like? Here are 3 unbelievable reasons.
3. He’s afraid of rejection.
Saying “I love you” makes many people vulnerable especially when the other person in the equation doesn’t feel the same chemistry like you do. Your man may feel you will reject his love if he tells you he loves you even if you’ve already shown him lots of love. He’s not bold enough because he is afraid your answer may hurt him.
2. He’s got some serious emotional trauma.
If your man’s been in a previous relationship that was really bad and he got really hurt in the process, then he may be as willing to jump into the emotional train of love and feelings. So, it’s better if you don’t assume something is wrong with you or him when he hasn’t said the words of love yet. Men think a lot before they jump into anything and that may be his case. He may just be waiting for the right time to tell you exactly how he feels about you so that he make a commitment.
1. He’s just having a hard time saying it, that’s all.
Some guys seem as unemotional and as unfeeling as the Rock of Gibraltar on the surface. But on the inside they are all soft feelings and lovey dovey. Your man may be having a hard time expressing himself because he doesn’t like or know how to talk about his emotions. He may just prefer to show you how much of a priority you are to him.
So ladies, fear not. Your man is your man. You just need to be more patient and more loving than ever before. Who knows? He may just surprise you and blurt it out one of these days. Wouldn’t that be an amazing surprise?
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